💞 Best Games for a Partner Who Doesn't Play Games

Simple controls, no twitch skill, still genuinely good.

Handing a normal controller to someone who has never used one is the fastest way to end the evening. The trick is picking games where the input is simple and the interest comes from somewhere else.

These fall into three groups: games one of you can play while the other watches and decides, games with one-button controls, and games designed for two people with different skill levels.

Play together, one controller

  1. Detroit: Become Human

    2018 · PC, PS5

    Mostly decisions, with a flowchart at the end showing what you missed. Passing the controller between scenes works perfectly.

  2. Life is Strange

    2015 · PC, PS5, Xbox, Switch

    A slow, talky story where the choices are the gameplay. Easy to discuss and easy to hand over.

  3. Return of the Obra Dinn

    2018 · PC, PS5, Xbox, Switch

    A deduction puzzle you solve on paper together. The person not holding the controller is doing half the work.

  4. What Remains of Edith Finch

    2017 · PC, PS5, Xbox, Switch

    Two hours, no failure, and one of the few games that lands with people who do not play games at all.

Simple controls, two players

  1. Overcooked! All You Can Eat

    2020 · PC, PS5, Xbox, Switch

    Two buttons and a stick. The difficulty comes from communication, not dexterity.

  2. Unravel Two

    2018 · PC, PS5, Xbox, Switch

    Gentle two-player platforming where a stronger player can carry a weaker one without it feeling bad.

  3. Snipperclips

    2017 · Switch

    Two shapes cutting each other into new shapes. Almost no controls to learn and immediately funny.

  4. Mario Kart 8 Deluxe

    2017 · Switch

    Smart steering and auto-accelerate let a complete newcomer finish a race, which is the whole battle.

Games they might play alone

  1. Stardew Valley

    2016 · PC, PS5, Xbox, Switch, Mobile

    The most common first game for people who thought they did not like games. No failure, endless small goals.

  2. Animal Crossing: New Horizons

    2020 · Switch

    Twenty minutes a day of tidying an island. It asks nothing and rewards routine.

  3. Untitled Goose Game

    2019 · PC, PS5, Xbox, Switch

    You are a horrible goose. It explains itself in ten seconds and lasts a pleasant afternoon.

  4. Dorfromantik

    2022 · PC, Switch

    Placing tiles to build a calm landscape. Closer to a jigsaw than a video game, which is the appeal.

Frequently Asked Questions

What games are good for someone who has never played?

Stardew Valley, Untitled Goose Game and Mario Kart 8 with smart steering are the usual first successes. Story games like Life is Strange work if they would rather watch and decide.

How do I teach someone to use a controller?

Start with a game that uses one stick and one button. Two-stick camera control is the thing that puts most newcomers off.

What can we play together with different skill levels?

Unravel Two, Overcooked and Snipperclips all let a stronger player carry without making the other feel useless.

Are story games real games?

For this purpose it does not matter — Detroit and Edith Finch are among the most reliable ways to get a non-player interested in the medium at all.

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